Valuing yourself more

Valuing yourself more

Valuing yourself and feeling significant is important for self confidence and self worth. Find your Super Power and allow yourself to shine and be your best self.

These words are pretty easy to say, but if you really sit down and really realise the full meaning of these words, they can change your life.

Take a moment to sit down and write 3 things down for each of the following-

What makes you sing?

What do you dream about?

What makes you cry?

Try not to force the answers just go with what you feel, I sometimes ask my ladies to talk about this with me when they come in for their Pre consultation. I really believe that talking and thinking about these things in the age of being super busy is just so important. Especially if we are deciding to step out of our comfort zone and do a Boudoir shoot. Answering these questions is the first step out of the comfort zone. Believe me when I say this, you will feel so proud of yourself and happy & it will be the first step to feeling worthy, valuable and significant.

So what makes me feel valuable is being able to create this wonderful experience for woman to see themselves again after various kinds of traumatic marriages or life events. One of the most rewarding times for me is when my lovely lady sees her photos up on the big screen for the first time, and just says wow, omg, that’s not me, geez I’m pretty hot aren’t I. They see themselves as an amazing, gorgeous, sexy woman in the first time in a long time. This has really changed lives.

This is why I do what I do.


So now that you have thought about those questions and about getting out of our comfort zone, have a think about what makes you, you. What makes you different, what can you do that’s a bit special. You probably are saying omg I’m not special at all, i can’t do anything, I’m just me….


So having a super power doesn’t mean you climb tall buildings in a single bound or have abs of steal or have a magic lasso! lol It means we all have something we can do that seems awesome or even amazing to others, but we just think it is normal and not that special. All you need to do is have a think about the last time you helped someone or you gave some advice and they were like wow thanks was really helpful, or wow I could not have done that without you. Are you organised? Are you a great cook do you have a signature dish? Do you make people laugh? Do you have a skill, like riding horses, teaching, remaining calm in stressful situations??? Some of these things may come easily to some people and not others.

SO… do you know what your Super Power is yet? Are you getting closer to working it out? Ask your friends what they think it is. THEY will know. Have the discussion about each of your Super Powers and really celebrate them and utilise them in a way you never thought you would. Cultivate your Super Power once you know what it is. Gain confidence from your Super Power, gain Self Value and get your life back on track in a positive way and love who you are right now!


Ralph Waldo Emerson

You are unique… you are beautifully you!

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